My message for this Sunday - Father's Day

I am speaking this Sunday and I just wrapped up my preparation. I am speaking on the biblical manhood and will be sharing some of the things that we have learned in Men's Fraternity while studying The Quest for Authentic Manhood.

The essence of the message will outline the biblical definition of manhood. We believe that real men will:

1. Reject passivity - in the Garden of Eden Adam surrendered his manhood when he stood by and allowed Eve to be deceived by the enemy. In contrast to this, Christ came and took an active role in our salvation.

2. Accept Responsibility - when God came looking for them to see what was up, he asked Adam what happened and he blames God for the wife he had given him. He played the victim. Christ accepted responsibility by loving the church and dying for it.

3. Lead courageously - Adam waited to see what his wife was going to do instead of stepping up and leading her away from this tragic mistake. Conversely, Christ said "follow me." He never waited to see what someone else was going to do but rather took a proactive stance.

4. Expect a greater reward, God's reward - Adam went after a reward that was not his, i.e. become like God. When we follow Christ's way there is always a great reward.

Please pray that I will share with God's strength and that he will change the lives of men in our church tomorrow. PT out. (Pastor Tye)

Epic Flood in Cedar Rapids, Iowa 2008 - part three

Here is some video footage of downtown Cedar Rapids:



For information on the Flood of 2008, I suggest you go The Gazette Online or KCRG.

Please pray for our community. This is going to be a long haul. Also, please know that we are safe and sound for those of you who have called and emailed. We can still get supplies at the grocery store and gasoline. Tye out.

Epic Flood in Cedar Rapids, Iowa 2008 - part two

(Dairy Queen before and after flood. The water is up to the bottom of the sign at this point and to the roof)

Wednesday night I hopped on my bike and headed downtown to see the flood with my own eyes. At that point it was a little over 20 feet and was supposed to go to 24.5. As I rode out onto the First Avenue bridge I was sobered by the rush of the water and the thought that in just hours the place where I was standing would have water. At that time I had no idea that the water would be 10 feet higher! Man.

As I rode around you could see all the sandbags around the buildings, again set up for a flood stage of 22.5. Crews were loading sandbags and some were taking pictures, sheepishly I might say.

The mood was sober and the atmosphere ominous. Usually people talk to you, smile, nod, and exchange pleasantries. There was none of that. It was like attending a funeral. No chit chat, nothing. Tears came to my eyes several times and just as I typed that they did again. Tye, down, but not out.

Epic Flood in Cedar Rapids Iowa 2008 - part one

(Pictured above - Mays Island, Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Notice the three bridges that are now under water.)


I have already received calls and emails from friends in Cleveland Ohio so I thought it was time to do a blog post on the unbelievable events of this week in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. The river started rising the first of the week and was predicted to go 10 feet over the flood stage of 12 feet - 22.5 feet. They said that they had never ever seen water that high in Cedar Rapids.

It crested this morning at 10 AM at 31.12 feet.

Click here for a slideshow. (I did NOT take these pictures)
Click here for a link to the local paper that has many, many pictures.

Our water treatment plant is operating at only 25% normal capacity and we are being told to do only one thing with water - drink it. No showers, no dishes, no laundry. The REALLY bad part about this is they don't expect to see a change for at least a week. ouch.

Worse, 8300 people have been evacuated including many of our own personal friends. The entire downtown area is flooded, including all but one bridge over the Cedar River. One of the two hospitals in our town is under water and being evacuated as I write.

We are being cautioned that this is going to be a marathon, not a sprint. The good news is we are talking about hardworking, hearty, Iowans. We will come back. Tye out.

The Volvo Vampire is gone

2.5 years ago my sister-in-law very graciously loaned us her 1996 Volvo 850 and told us that she wanted it back when we were done with it. Well, after over $4k in repairs I am done with it. Admittedly, I had to put tires on it when we got it so that sort of got the ball rolling. Next came (I lost track) radiator, rack and pinion, starter (on Volvo was $470 installed), front brakes (I did this myself), rear brakes (done at shop), two more tires, broken sunroof, and an oil pan ($850) because I hit a pothole and poked a hole in the cast aluminum oil pan - any other car would have been around $2-300. the week before it went back the critical check engine light came on so that cost almost $100 to have checked out. It was a broken vacuum hose thingee. bummer.

Needless to say I am thrilled to no longer see that car in the driveway. I still don't have a car yet but a friend here graciously loaned me his car for a while. I'll try riding my bike on some days, and even walking on others. For $4k I could have bought my dream bicycle and a car to drive when the weather is bad. hmmm - maybe that is why I don't care for rear view mirrors all that much. : )

Any how, no more Volvo repairs. The Volvo Vampire has left the building. Tye out.

P.S. Luxury cars deserve a luxury salary. I should have known better. Pastors should not be driving a Volvo no matter what.

The Graduate

Another kid from the Male home has now graduated from High School and we couldn't be more proud of her, in spite of the fact that it has taken me two weeks to post this article!

Click here for pics of their informal graduation invite pics.
Click here for some of the pics we used for Allyson's display boards.
Click here for grad pics and grad party pics.

We had a very exciting weekend two weeks ago as we celebrated Ally's graduation. Here are some stats from Allyson's illustrious high school career:

• Graduated with distinction (GPA over 4.0)
• Nominated and selected for National Honor Society
• Track Junior year
• Member of Student Council - Junior/Senior
• SODA (Students Opposed to Drugs and Alcohol.)
• TRI (Teens Reaching Youth)
• Lean on Me
• Acquired her CNA (Certified Nursing Assistant)
• Volunteer at the H.D. Youth Center
• Mexico Missions Trip with NCBC Youth
• Served in Deep Impact (NCBC Middle School)

Judy's parents came in for the festivities and to celebrate with us. There was a lot of eating and sleeping. Bob and Kay are now retired and living the high life. : )

On Saturday night we had a grad party/dance with two other families. You will see pictures in the slide show of us having a great time. There's even a father/daughter graduation dance! It was a great time and I am pretty sure we did the Cha Cha Slide at least two or three times. It was a great time and we think about 250 people showed at the Round House where we had the event! Awesome!!!

Allyson is now working as a CNA at Northbrook Manor Nursing Home and will be heading to St. Ambrose University in the fall for Track One Doctor of Physical Therapy degree. We are so proud of you Allyson!!! Great job! Dad out.

Where is Tye???

Hello there! It has been a while since I talked to you. In fact, my readership has probably gone from about 38 to 29.56 - a sad statistic. : )

Since my last post a lot has happened. Let's go with some bullet points to bring you up to speed:

• Allyson graduated from Linn Mar High School.
  
• I rode a great bike ride called TOMRV (pronounced TOM-rov)
• Organized a team to move our senior pastor. We did it in 6 hours flat. : )
• Helping form a ministry team called SWAT (Service with a Tool)
• Spent two days in bed with intestinal bug - yuck.
• Starting to get some miles in on my bike.
• Meetings, meetings, meetings.
• Gave the message at our Washington campus when the HD video player ate the tape.
• Saw some cool movies.
• Took Allyson to college orientation (yikes) this past Monday and Tuesday.
• Had some quality time with my wonderful wife.
• Picked up a job mowing a yard for a couple up the street who moved and their house is for sale.
• I think I burned up my mower mowing on a steep slope. I can't win for losing. : (
• NO MORE VOLVO. My sister-in-law loaned us a Volvo to use and now I am rid of this money pit.
  

That's it for now. I'm going to get busy posting again. Tye out.

EF 5 Tornado formation pictures

These pictures where taken by Sarah Barcz's father minutes before the tornado removed their house and left only the foundation and two very lucky people, her parents.

EF5 Tornado rips through Eastern Iowa

No words can describe what happened to a city just west of Waterloo, Iowa. Two of our church members have parents that live in Parkersburg, Iowa. Sarah Barcz attends our church and her parents were interviewed on TV and it is an amazing story. Click here to watch the story. (It does NOT work in Firefox.) Please say a prayer for them.

This is just 60 miles north of where we live. A sobered Tye out.

Today is International Hug a Musician Day

I am celebrating International Hug a Musician Day today and so far I've received 8 hugs! This is a special event that is featured on Facebook. I hope you will consider participating and hugging the musician of your choice! Tye out.

DAVID COOK is the American Idol!

Again, what is there left to say. What an awesome show. See you in January!

American Idol Season Finale - my new fave singer

Ok, I said I was finished blogging during AI but I just had to tell you that I think Carrie Underwood stole the show from everyone. She's beautiful, smooth, gritty, powerful, and DEEPLY moving to listen to. I definitively got some tears going watching that incredible version "Last Name." She is absolutely amazing and TRULY an American Idol.

Btw, click here to read my blog post from last season when I described what I believed was a true American Idol.

And did Simon just apologize? I agree - both David's are winners! Awesome show, awesome season.

American Idol Season Finale - pt. 2

David Cook sings with ZZ Top. Incredible!!!! The last time I saw these guys was in Back to the Future 3. David is obviously in his element and loving it. I forgot how much I love that driving guitar sound. Tye out.

P.S. Since I am missing the show while I'm typing I'm going to end here.

American Idol Season Finale - pt. 1

All I've got to say at this point, 45 minutes into the show - DANG! This is the most amazing finale I can remember, and I never saw the Carrie Underwood and Ruben Stoddard year. The first year we watched was the Fantasia year - gag.

The opening number with the two David's moved me deeply - that was amazing! They say that in leadership and teams that one plus one never equals two and this was definitely true in their opening performance.

One thing is for sure, David will win. And we can enjoy the fact that this was an extremely close and exciting season this year. Tye out.

P.S. I can't wait to hear Carrie Underwood. She's amazing!

Team leadership vs. top-down leadership in the church- part 1

(You probably ought to read my disclaimer on the right hand column prior to reading this blog post.)

I read an article yesterday in Leadership Magazine about The Next Level Church that has done away with the concept of having a "senior pastor" in favor of a team approach to ministry. Here is a couple quotes from the magazine:

“Eight years ago TNL Church dispensed with a senior pastor to implement a team leadership model.” Managing editor Skye Jethani of Leadership magazine says “They are not alone. I am in touch with churches from South Carolina to California that intentionally avoid a “senior pastor” in favor of a team model.” TNL’s Dave Terpstra says, “Just because we believe in a flattened structure doesn’t mean we don’t believe in leadership.”

Click here to read the entire article.

At New Covenant Bible Church we have not dispensed with the idea of a senior pastor, but we have embraced the team leadership concept where we are all equals serving in various areas according to our strengths. Our ministry is truly a collaborative operation and lacks that "top-down" CEO mentality of many churches today.

But there are some keys that make this work and I would like to discuss some of these over the next couple of days. Tye out.

P.S. So, why the PC vs. Mac pic? When I think of the top-down authoritarian style leadership I think of people wearing suits and ties, having special parking privileges, and big corner offices. When I think of team style leadership I have a picture in my mind of tennis shoe wearing, backpack carrying, coffee-shop hanging out guys. Whatever. : )

My testimony - part 2

Let the wicked abandon their way of life and the evil their way of thinking. Let them come back to God, who is merciful, come back to our God, who is lavish with forgiveness.
Isaiah 55:7 The Message

Yesterday I talked about how I walked away from a lifestyle of living for God and turned toward a lifestyle of serving myself. Then between my freshman and sophomore year of college a friend witnessed to me about the love of Christ and for the first time in four years I acknowledged my relationship with Christ.

That summer I decided not to return to the College Conservatory of Music to continue my studies in the Jazz/Studio Music program. I eventually gave my life back to the Lord and returned to worshipping him rather than myself.

I had difficulty understanding how God could forgive me for turning my back on him and living such an ungodly lifestyle when a friend showed me this passage in Isaiah 55:7. I would eventually come to accept God's mercy and his forgiveness which set me free to live a life wholly devoted to him. Without that sense of forgiveness I felt that I could never measure up and God could never be happy with me.

The Creator God loves you with an everlasting love. He has provided his son to die on a cruel cross in your place thus demonstrating his love for you and now he stands ready to forgive you. Why not ask his forgiveness today and walk away with a clean slate? Tye out.

My testimony - part 1

Let the wicked abandon their way of life and the evil their way of thinking. Let them come back to God, who is merciful, come back to our God, who is lavish with forgiveness. Isaiah 55:7 The Message

Many followers of Christ have what we call a "life verse" which is a portion of the bible that we feel typifies our lives or we want it to typify our lives. Isaiah 55:7 is my life verse because it is descriptive of a turning point in my life. I'll explain.

I gave my life to Christ sometime around the time I was 12 years old. I realized that I could not atone for my own sins and that should I choose not to accept Jesus' offer of eternal life through his death on the cross I would have to pay for my sins - eternity in hell. I turned from myself and toward God and trusted him for my eternal life.

At 15 years of age I played my sax in a rock band and made $35. It was at that moment that I determined that I would seek a career in jazz/studio music. Unfortunately I did not think (and due to the teaching of my church) that a career in secular music was cogent with being a fully devoted follower of Christ. So, I turned my back on God and decided that I would rather live for myself and my music than live for God.

That decision led to several years of living a lifestyle that was contrary to what God teaches in his word.

I'll share more tomorrow about this story. Tye out.

Cynicism is not a spiritual gift

I can be a cynic - it just depends on the circumstances Like for instance when something is planned and the planning stage drags on and on. I'm all like, "let's just get this thing going!" Or when it comes to good grades, especially in college. The straight A student is most likely blessed with smart genes, gifted by God, and somewhat disciplined. How can you reward genes and God's gifting? Besides, the A student typically studies the teacher and learns how to tell them what they want to hear on testing day. Sometimes this actually translates into learning. That's cynical!!!

Well I took a look at the spiritual gifts inventory and couldn't find cynicism anywhere. I read an article with this same title (Cynicism is not a Spiritual Gift) today by Dave Burchett and thought I would share it with you. Click here to read the entire article. Dave offers five ways to keep from being cynical:

1. I am that wretch the song talks about. I needed God's amazing grace as much as anyone and without it I am absolutely destitute and hopeless. It is easy for me to look down on others until I realize that "but for the grace of God, there go I."

2. I need to focus on Jesus. when I take my eyes off the Lord and begin gawking at people, his church, or any other thing I can become cynical about others, the church, or even possessions.

3. I don't have any idea what other people are going through. That person who just barked at you for no apparent reason may be going through some personal hell that you cannot even begin to comprehend. We need to minister to them not by being cynical, but by giving them grace and mercy.

Click here to read the last two items.

Today I want to be a person of grace and mercy. It is easy to be cynical and critical, but that is not what God wants from us. How can you be God's agent of grace and mercy to someone today? Tye out.

A blank slate

I don't like staring at a blank piece of paper but that is exactly what I am doing right now. I'm just wrapping up a time of reading the word, checking emails, and reading a couple online articles and will head on to the office here in a few minutes.

But this blank screen is driving me mad. What to write? Should I write? Will someone read what I write? Isn't there something more productive to be doing right now?

Still thinking. hmmmm. Hey!!! (said like Harry Caray) Maybe it is a good thing that I am thinking. Maybe so.

National Day of Prayer and the National Day of Reason

Thursday, May 1, the Linn County Association of Evangelicals (I serve as secretary) sponsored a National Day of Prayer observance on Mays Island in Cedar Rapids. It was a great day and I am thankful for a fair turnout of folks who came to show their support of this great nation we live in and to ask God's continued blessings on it.

The woman whom I am pictured with above is Dr. Lydia Hartunian, and she teaches at Kirkwood College where my son is attending, my wife attends, and I perform with the CR Jazz Band. Dr. Hartunian teaches Encounters in Humanities, Working in America, and Culture and Technology. She is also the faculty advisor for s student group called The National Day of Reason, a group that believes in secularism and humanism. She is also President of Atheists United for a Rational America. Dr. Hartunian is the founder and director of THE GREAT AMERICAN GOD-OUT!–an annual lecture series/celebration in November that encourages people to learn about godless living and critical thinking skills.

So you're asking yourself, what in the world are you doing in a pic with an avowed atheist? Dr. Hartunian came to the National Day of Prayer observance in order to show that there are citizens who do not embrace theism of any sort and so that they would be represented. But there's a twist...

Lydia led a group of students who held up signs encouraging people to "Pray, then act." In fact, they were collecting money for veterans in order to help them because they believe that hope is found in us rather than in God.

I thanked Dr. Hartunian and the students for their support of veterans and assured her that as a church we could always do a better job at reaching out to the downtrodden and disenfranchised.

We chatted for a long time and found that we have common ground in many things, not the least of which is that people need to be reminded that one of the greatest things we can do is to reach out to others, regardless of our motives.

As believers in God, our motive for loving others comes directly from God's own son Jesus Christ:

“I give you a new commandment – to love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. Everyone will know by this that you are my disciples – if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35 NET Bible

I thank God for bringing a new friend into my life. Tye out.